I remembered again this past weekend how much I love giving hospitality. As I am between homes of my own, a friend offered to co-host a party with me on Saturday night.
It's amazing how much the investment of preparing food opens your heart to those you serve. Something about the act of sharing food, having labored in preparation, ties us, holistic beings that we are, more closely to one another than any meeting in a neutral place. I hesitate to say that the body serves the soul--perhaps it does, or perhaps our bodies, subject as they are to the weakness of this waiting-consummation-world, have their own function in our personhood. Equal, different, complementarian.
The touch, the smell, the taste of being together is wrapped up in hospitality. Preparing food is the not-yetness of physical presence. The foretaste of whole companionship. The firstfruits.
This, too, is a very good thing. The man, after all, was formed from the dust before God breathed the breath of life. Let us not forget the body's part when we prepare to feed the soul.